Shame, Shame, Go Away My Child Has A Disease, An Addiction

Our children’s substance abuse creates such isolation for beloved addicts and parents alike.  It feels like others cannot possibly relate to our struggles as parents of addicts unless they, too, have been hunkered down in the trenches of fear, anger and shame. But I have great hope that as we spread the word about addiction as a brain disease, then the shame will begin to dissipate and we can come together openly and constructively to prevent addiction through awareness and education. 

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What Really Is An Addiction?

So here, for the record, is the official definition of addiction from the American Society of Addiction Medicine:  The ASDM defines addiction as “a primary, chronic disease of brain reward, motivation, memory and related circuitry. Dysfunction in these circuits leads to characteristic biological, psychological, social and spiritual manifestations. This is reflected in an individual pathologically pursuing reward and/or relief by substance use and other behaviors.”

Physician Michael Wilkes aptly illustrates that point in the Collision Course – Teen Addiction Epidemic documentary when he says, “I don’t think it’s any more under someone’s control than skin cancer or breast cancer or an infectious disease.  Sure, there’s some role you had initially but once you begin to get the actual manifestations of the disease, you can’t stop it without a significant amount of help.” (You can watch Collision Course here, and then ask your local Public TV station to run it in your area.)

There Is No Shame

We’ all know the part about the sheer amount of work and terror in trying to derail active addiction. Through education and awareness, we can stop addiction before it even starts.  And never forget—there is no shame in having a child with a disease, whether its asthma, diabetes or addiction/aka substance use disorder.  Even calling it by its new medical name–substance use disorder–is a step towards reducing the stigma.  

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